Twin Flames--The Holy Grail of Life


On International Women's Day 2014 (March 8th) I had some of my female friends over for my 2nd Pearl Session; a intimate conversation for conscious women that I hope to soon hold monthly. One of the many things that was brought up during our conversation was the notion of a twin flame.

Ms. Vicky Gonzalez introduced the topic and I was so curious to learn more that I spent my weekend reading and understanding twin flames to share with my cosmic audience. Here's what I learned: When we are physically brought into this earth our soul is born into a group of other souls. According to, the souls within our group are our soulmates, ones who are very like us in frequency makeup. "Think of soul mates like a group of people you went to first grade with. Each grade until you graduate is a lifetime." -(Source)

God made one soul and he split it in two...masculine and feminine energy. Before entering the human incarnation each soul is split into two, creating a corresponding twin flame for each person. Despite the fact that the souls are split, each flame is a whole being, and not a half.

Twin_Flame___Balancer_by_zeldaconnetionYour chance of meeting and staying with your twin flame depends on how evolved your soul is and how much of your baggage from this life and your past life you've cleared. The biggest reason why twins separate after coming together is their individual emotional baggage. In the presence of your twin, there can be nothing between you, nothing blocking your closeness. This means that everything comes up for healing that you haven't previously healed. Everything! I think of twin flames as the ultimate power couples (i.e. Jay and Bey; Michelle and Obama) who show the world their individual powers + their collective powers.

With every love/romantic situation that we encounter, we question or evaluate whether this person was our soul mate, our twin flame or simply just a character in that chapter. I think to myself, how did my soul feel around this person?  

Soulmates are plentiful. A Twin Flame is only one.